Ushering In The Big 4-0

When you are a woman, turning 40 is supposed to be this huge thing.

Some look forward to it as a sign of life experience, some dread it as a sign of passing youth.

I’m not going to lie to you, it has taken me the better part of a year (and a couple of blog posts) to wrap my head around hitting this intimidating milestone in my life. I never quite envisioned the words “I’m forty” coming out of my own mouth. But, I’m happy to report that honestly… it is all much ado about nothing.

It came and went.

It is now my new reality.

Perhaps it was because of the “impending birthday” (insert dramatic music here) that I have spent the last few months doing some true soul searching.

And I’ve come to the conclusion that I like myself. I like my circumstances.

And, I am most definitely okay with my age. (I’ve never acted my age anyway, why in the world would I start now?)

I am enjoying every moment of my life. I’m letting things go. I’m savoring moments more. I’m appreciating important friends and colleagues in my life. I’m filling my spirit with prayer and searching for deeper meaning in the every day.

And I am laughing. Really, truly laughing, smiling and happy.

Why did it take me until 40? No idea. But I encourage you to do the same. Start now. Savor your circumstances. Revel in your experiences. It is so worth it.

Spending my 40th in NYC with my family!

Some resources:

Before I forget – THIS was also awesome!

5 Responses to "Ushering In The Big 4-0"

  1. Dipaaola Momma
    Dipaaola Momma 4 years ago .

    See it didn’t suck as much as you thought it would. Happy Birthday!

  2. Melissa
    Melissa 4 years ago .

    40 was really hard for me. I’m about to be 43 and it’s not any easier. It’s really just the number itself that gives me apeplexy because otherwise I’m just a more self confident, smarter, wiser and way hotter 18 year old.

  3. marymac
    marymac 4 years ago .

    “I’ve never acted my age anyway, why in the world would I start now?”

    LOVE IT. Love you. Happy Birthday to my incredible, talented, lovely friend.

    p.s. welcome to the COOL CLUB!

  4. Tonya Staab
    Tonya Staab 4 years ago .

    I cannot imagine the words ‘I’m 40′ coming out of my mouth in 6 months. I hope it breezes by without incident, because I did not react well to 30.

    I absolutely love your 40 before 40 list and I’m going to do that in lieu of making ‘New Years Resolutions’. I think by knocking a few things off my list by the big day, it will ease the pain a little :).

  5. Rebecca
    Rebecca 4 years ago .

    Felt so similar — like how long did it take me to really feel comfortable with who I am? 40 years! Fantastic~! Happy Birthday, wishing you a wonderful year of health and happiness — and another 40+ years of being quintessentially you!